Remembering
Nancy Ross
By Marie Goode
Nancy
Marie Ross was born on July 16, 1955 in Stillwater, Oklahoma.
She was the youngest of 4 daughters born to Mr. and Mrs. Roy and Reba
Brown. She grew up as the daughter of a Southern Baptist minister.
There was a
custom in the Brown household that on Saturday evening at dinner
everyone had to share a scripture that they had memorized that week.
Nancy did admit that just before dinner on Saturdays she was often
found looking for a short scripture to memorize and be ready when
Dad called on her!! This was the foundation for her love for the
Word of God. When we asked about her her favorite scripture, she
was quick to say that she loved ALL of GOD’s WORD!!
When
Nancy was 6 yrs old, her mother died and she grew up in a house
full of girls, becoming very independent.
She graduated from university with a degree in Business and Music.
Many in Thailand did not know she played the piano as she always
said that there were plenty of people on the keyboard and she was
happy just to sing!!
As a single
young woman she moved to Florida where she went through a “ME”
stage...when she placed herself as #1 in her life...however, God
- in His faithfulness - drew her back to Himself.
When she came
back to the Lord - she came with great passion!! She knew that she
had broken the heart of God with her choices and she did not want
others to make the same mistakes.
When Nancy decided to move to Oregon her friend said, “You
are going to meet and marry that single Pastor.” After about
a month in Oregon, Dana arrived and Nancy prayed - “God IF
this is of you - then you will have to bring it about!”...
and promptly began ignoring Dana. The pastor sensing this relationship
was of God asked Dana if he had considered Nancy Brown. Dana’s
reply - “NOPE - she’s too young, too loud and not my
type.!!” The pastor quickly let Dana know that she was not
too young - maybe was a little loud - but certainly was his type!!
Much to the dismay of the other single women vying for Dana’s
attentions - Dana began to see Nancy with NEW eyes!!
Nancy always liked a good deal so when she found the wedding dress
she wanted for a really good price, she purchased it even before
Dana proposed :-). So I'm not sure if it was because the dress was
such a good deal... or if she was that confident that Dana would
propose - and he was the good deal! Dana & Nancy were
married on September 8th, 1984.
Dana’s
oldest son, Jeremy, was 12 years old when he came to live with Dana
and Nancy. When Nancy married Dana she made a decision to not pursue
children of her own but to love his boys like her own. We see how
this was accomplished when we hear Jeremy’s words at the funeral
service in the USA
“The
21 years I knew my mom was the most important time of my life.
I would not be the person, husband, father or friend I am today,
if it were not for her guidance and the love she gave to me."
In 1990 Dana & Nancy moved to Arizona in obedience to God along
with two other couples to start a new ministry totally trusting
God. They had not been in Arizona long when Nancy was diagnosed
with breast cancer and then Valley Fever. This was a challenging
time for Nancy as they were in a new place and the team had started
new jobs and none of them could spend a lot of time with her. I
remember being amazed as she told me how she would go to chemo and
then drive herself to work even though nauseated as she could not
afford to miss work. Nancy said that this time of sickness really
helped her to walk through some of the selfishness that she'd struggled
with in her life.
She was a fighter
- with much strength and perseverance. She had a dream and a call
to fulfill. She knew at age 6 that God had called her to
be a missionary. In 1995 a prophesy came to Dana &
Nancy that they were “wearing the wrong armor”. They
were told to - GO TO THE NATIONS. It was not long before
Dana & Nancy were selling literally everything they owned and
going to their DTS. God gave both of them a heart for Asia - and
then more specifically for Thailand. She served the Lord in the
USA, Philippines, Ukraine, India and of course - her beloved Thailand.
Beginning with
the doctor’s diagnosis of ovarian cancer in January 2003 Nancy
battled heroically for 2 years in steadfast faith in His goodness
and mercy even in the midst of great pain. She continued to believe
for healing and asked everyone to pray for that.
At
dawn on November 19, 2004 at the age of 49 years old, Nancy joined
that great cloud of witnesses that we read about in Hebrews 12.
She had fought the good fight and finished her race. She is now
cheering each of us on to greater intimacy with God. Nancy really
enjoyed sports - she knew how to cheer people on to victory...Nancy
and those with her cheer us onward in our race.
Nancy died as she lived...fighting for her life persevering through
sickness and pain increasing intimacy with God worshipping her Savior
whom she loved crying out for salvation for the people of Thailand.
Today we remember
Nancy as a woman of God who valued intimacy with God as top priority
our dear friend and co-worker singer/songwriter/worshipper
and the one who could usually keep Dana in line with one look and
one word... ...”HONEY!!!”
We saw modeled
in her life - joy, faithfulness, generosity, courage, and incredible
perseverance. She left those of us who loved her with precious memories
of her joy for living, her infectious laugh and her radiant smile.
All through these last two years she had said that IF she was going
to die, then she wanted to do so in Thailand. This is where God
had called her and this is where she wanted to be. One of her last
requests - in her pain and weakness - was - IF she was not healed,
IF she was not resurrected (she always left room for these possibilities),
then she would like to be cremated and have some of her ashes spread
in Thailand. (She was determined to return to Thailand in some form!!)
Just before
leaving for Afghanistan, I spoke with Nancy and said to her...”Nancy,
I KNOW that I will see you again. If it is on the earth it will
be with great joy. But if not on this earth, it will be with even
greater joy as it will be at the feet of Jesus.” And though
- like you - I would have chosen seeing her here - I KNOW that Nancy
will be there waiting for us...worshipping the one whom she loved
and lived for...Jesus.
Nancy, today, we as your family in YWAM Thailand join together
in saying...We love you...We miss you...and WE WILL SEE
YOU LATER....
The total price of the building is 5 million baht (US$145,000),
and after 3 years of payments we will owe a balloon payment
of 3.56 million baht (US$103,000) in August 2008.
Would you prayerfully consider making a donation
to help payoff the building?
For more info contact:ywamthai@loxinfo.co.th
Visit
the Nancy Ross Training
Center webpage
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